It's been a while since I journaled. Looking back at my entries, I think I am doing better. My doctor has changed my meds a couple of times. Maybe they are working or maybe it's me getting more involved in church.
I went to the Next Steps group and learned more about the church and took the SHAPE (spiritual gifts, heart, abilities, personality, experience) assessment. I was still confused about where I fit in. Then I went to Group Connect. I got into a group of older single ladies, but then that group merged with one that had married ladies. It's a small group and we're going to recruit more.
I quit going to GriefShare. It was almost done anyway, but the last few weeks I was there, they kept expressing opinions about Covid and it was hurtful. No one would say anything to or in front of the others dealing with grief but because it's Covid, everyone thinks they're entitled to their opinion. I spoke with the leader and she apologized profusely. She said she'd address it.
The guy I wrote about that said he felt God wanted him to tell me that He gave me Scott to be a symbol of His love for me: I really thought long on that. He didn't know my story, but he was right. Scott saved me when I was in trouble. He treated me kindly and gently. He encouraged me to keep my mind on Christ. He took care of me then and for the future. A husband is supposed to be a picture of God and His love for the church and Scott was.
I'm looking at houses for my mom and my brother here in KC. We're dealing with major foundation trouble with that house. Mom doesn't really want to move up here but my brother and I agree it would be best. The problem is that the market is so crazy, houses are selling quick and for over asking price. I feel a little anxious and overwhelmed. I'm praying if it's God's Will, it'll work out. Mom is praying that if it's His Will for her to come here, I'll find a place and if it's not, I won't.
Arrena is busy preparing for the wedding. My mom came up a few weeks ago and Arrena tried on wedding dresses. Then last weekend we went to Wichita to buy fabric.
Kimberly came back home to live during the week. On weekends she stays with her boyfriend. She quit school because she has been dealing with major anxiety. One night I had to take her to the ER at Research. I hadn't been back since Scott died. I had a flashback at security and about lost it. She's got an appointment with a therapist and she's on some meds that seem to be helping.
Billy has had a couple of meltdowns. One, he hit Arrena, bit her, and pulled her hair, so I had to call 911 and then take him to Children's Mercy. It was the day before he turned 16. His therapist he'd bonded with left for a new job and we still haven't heard from the new one yet. And his Community Integration staff just changed too. He also went back to school full time in person.
Arrena, Kimberly, and I have had both of our Covid vaccines and Billy will have his second next week. After the second, I had flu-like symptoms the next day, but now I'm fine.
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